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13 July 2020
Proud Partners Group Program

Proud Partners Group Program

Note: Thank you so much for your interest in this program! Due…

21 November 2023
A pirate called Finn

A pirate called Finn

By Finn Siggs Content note: sexual harassment, mention of drowning  In January…

17 November 2023

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SLAY BELLES XMAS TOUR (SA)
08
Dec

SLAY BELLES XMAS TOUR (SA)

In The Dark Presents SLAY BELLES XMAS TOUR We're thrilled to announce…

08 December 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Queer Breathwork Sydney (NSW)
09
Dec

Queer Breathwork Sydney (NSW)

Queer Breathwork is a unique LGBTIQA+ gathering. Its purpose is to create…

09 December 5:45 pm – 8:45 am
SLAY BELLES XMAS TOUR (QLD)
10
Dec

SLAY BELLES XMAS TOUR (QLD)

In The Dark Presents SLAY BELLES XMAS TOUR We're thrilled to announce…

10 December 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Queer Cinema: Happiest Season (NSW)
15
Dec

Queer Cinema: Happiest Season (NSW)

Join us for an especially festive movie night with holiday snacks and…

15 December 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm
Gaymes Night (QLD)
15
Dec

Gaymes Night (QLD)

Bring some snacks and settle in for an evening of tabletop games,…

15 December 5:30 pm – 11:00 pm
Rainbow Territory regular meeting (NT)
19
Dec

Rainbow Territory regular meeting (NT)

Rainbow Territory meets fortnightly in Darwin. We can also facilitate dial in…

19 December 5:30 pm – 6:45 pm
Rainbow Family Christmas (VIC)
22
Dec

Rainbow Family Christmas (VIC)

Join LINE Wangaratta for a free and special Christmas Community meal at…

22 December 5:30 pm – 8:00 pm
YAAS BIG SCREEN (NSW)
12
Jan

YAAS BIG SCREEN (NSW)

YAAS BIG SCREEN. A lofi summer night of film, fun, music and…

12 January – 17 January
Welcome to the GAYbourhood (WA)
19
Jan

Welcome to the GAYbourhood (WA)

Love is Love on RamsGAY Street! Join us for a night celebrating…

19 January – 27 January
Midsumma Festival (VIC)
21
Jan

Midsumma Festival (VIC)

Midsumma Festival is a leading LGBTQIA+ cultural festival in Victoria, uniting communities…

21 January – 11 February
Happily Ever Poofter (WA)
22
Jan

Happily Ever Poofter (WA)

Join Prince Henry – the only gay in the Kingdom – on…

22 January – 23 January
I Want It That Gay (VIC)
30
Jan

I Want It That Gay (VIC)

The performer’s personal stories are intertwined with satirical rewrites of their favourite…

30 January – 03 February
Queer as Flux (VIC)
30
Jan

Queer as Flux (VIC)

An intimate, uplifting solo performance by Zac Callaghan and long-term collaborator and…

30 January 9:00 pm – 10:30 pm
Ultra Violet (NSW)
17
Feb

Ultra Violet (NSW)

Welcome to a wondrous world designed by and for LGBTQIA+ women. Live…

17 February 3:00 pm – 11:59 pm

LGBTQ+ Domestic and Family Violence

Although data is limited, available evidence indicates that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ+) people are just as likely as women in the general population (non-LGBTQ+) to experience domestic and/or family violence (DFV), that’s about 1 in 3 who have experienced it in a past or present relationship.

Despite the prevalence of DFV for LGBTQ+ people, our communities are less likely to find support services that meet our specific needs, we are less likely to identify the occurrence of DFV in our relationships and less likely to report it to the police or to seek support from services.

The chances are that you or someone you know is, or has been, in an abusive relationship.

Throughout this site we refer to LGBTQ+ people, standing for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer, or in other words, people of diverse genders and sexualities. We understand that this acronym will not and cannot suit everyone and every diverse identity. For information about intersex people please see our About Us page.

 

At The Front Door

At The Front Door is a mini-documentary, filmed in 2021, that meets people in different relationships from LGBTQ+ communities in NSW. We learn what is unique about our relationships, what challenges we face together and how we overcome them through pride, strength and love.

Think your relationship could be better?

In LGBTQ+ communities, there can be less pressure to have relationships based on more traditional models. As a result, our relationships come in all looks, forms, sizes and configurations.

However, there are healthy traits which are important to all relationships, regardless of how they appear on the surface. Those traits include trust, feeling secure, consent, communication and respect.

If you’re already in a good relationship, but think there is room for growth, check out our tried and true tips for a rock solid relationship!

gay couple fighting and making up
Artist: Mat Pal, Sydney

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